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The saying remains, respect is paramount and you have to respect to be respected. Couple who truly love each other and would like to push their relationship to the next level will always avoid disrespecting each other.

But, if you there disrespect then the relationship will be a troubled one with fights now and then. You might find yourself in a scenario that you feel something is wrong but again your not sure about it or you might be in a puzzle trying to understand how a disrespectful relationship looks like.

But don’t worry, in this article I will list the signs of a disrespectful partner that are oftenly present in almost all troubled relationships.

First of all you have to understand that a disrespectful relationship is one in which a partner or both partners don’t feel valued. Usually, it is a relationship where one person is taken for granted and treated unfairly.

In this case, one might experience abuse in the relationship. This means on of the partner will be emotional abused.

Silent treatment, gaslighting, and stonewalling are just some of the abusive behavior patterns that happen in toxic relationships.

This kinds of relationships are always bound to fail because being rude, uncaring, and disloyal are some of the biggest destroyers of every relationship.

Here are some of the signs of a disrespect in relationship.

The Silent Treatment

For example, after an argument one of the partner gives the other partner the silent treatment then automatically that number one sign of disrespect.

Arguments are an usual thing in every relationship but when it gets to the silent treatment aka stonewalling one has to raise the head up and rethink about the relationship.

Stonewalling is one of the sneaky techniques mostly used by narcissists for the sake of torturing their partner’s mind, controlling their emotions, and passively forcing them to take the blame.

Partners who go mum on the other partner generally want play with their partner’s mind and force them to overthink which then turns to emotional abuse.

No support emotionally and professionally

Your partner should be your number one supporter either emotionally or even professional. But if he/she show no interest in supporting anything in your life then that means they really don’t care and don’t have your best interest at heart.


Any type of relationship works pretty well if there is trust or the partner can be trusted. Once your partner stops trusting you for no reason then we are talking of disrespect here.

Flirts with other people

Disrespect is when your partner is very busy on phone sending flirty texts to other people yet ignores you. This kind of partner will also send these lovey-dovey texts to other people Infront of you with caring. Just walk out or find a way to mend that relationship because respect is long gone here.

Being super secretive

In a relationship, both partners must remain honest with one another. This the recipe for a healthy and a lasting relationship. But if you find your boyfriend keeping secrets from you and perhaps even lying to you, then it is a sign of disrespect and you must delve deeper into what is really behind it.

A partner who hides things may try to justify his behavior by saying that he did not want you to fret or worry or did not think you needed to know. Mind you, do not fall for these sugar coated words- it is still very much a sign of disrespect in a relationship.

Lying, in any case, cannot be about something good or helpful but you will at least know about the source which will help you plan your response accordingly.

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Signs of disrespect in relationships that should not be ignored