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Mwangi Luke
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Is He Ready For A Serious Relationship? Here Are The Signs

There is never the best thing in life like choosing the correct person for yourself. Like i am trying to say its you who determines what kind of a relationship you want. Like you can just go picking everyone without consent or lets say you two ain’t on the same page.

Of all things it is good to recognize the signs of a man who is ready to settle down and wants a serious relationship so you don’t end up wasting your time and getting blindsided when after months of pouring your heart and soul into this guy and into the relationship, you discover he’s not on the same page.

They say love is blind,yes it is, but sometimes it can make you get too attached and you won’t see clearly the reality. You do not need to be blind folded to that extent. Read on for the signs he is ready for something serious … and that he’s serious about you.

1.Growth-Oriented person

We all need a person who is ready to increase value in all manner. This applies on both parties, you have to mold yourselves.

No one is perfect, we all have flaws. And these flaws aren’t black and white- usually, a person’s greatest strength is a hint to their greatest weakness.

Is He Ready For A Serious Relationship? Here Are The Signs

I can tell every girl would want a man that is willing to be understanding and ready to change on his weak points. If you come across a certain problem you must be that person to manage and over come them in a short time. You need this man who wants to pus forward.

In a relationship, his behavior affects you (and vice versa), and sometimes his less developed traits will have a negative impact on you. A growth-oriented guy will want to strengthen his character and work on it. A guy who isn’t growth oriented will say your problem and this is the way he is and you need to deal with it.

Maybe he has a very harsh, to-the-point personality and sometimes you need more empathy and softness. A guy who wants to develop and grow will hear that and work on it. And for a relationship to work, two people need to be able to bend in certain areas to meet their partner’s emotional needs.

2. He is settled in life

You i have met like a lot of guys and what i have noticed in them is that, no man would to settle down if he feels not settled well in life and everything is moving all the way in a direction he wanted. Lol This is a secret just for you. wink wink.


If a guy is just a mess, he won’t want to commit. Most women can always make space for a relationship, it doesn’t matter how down in the dumps we are. Men aren’t like this. If a man isn’t ready, then he’s not ready. And most men will not want to be in a relationship if their life is in shambles.

Unfortunately, most women see this as an opportunity to play savior and swoop in and help him heal. But this rarely is effective and usually, she just ends up with her heartbroken.

If a man doesn’t feel like a winner, he won’t want to be “seen” and there is nowhere to hide in a serious relationship so chances are he won’t be ready to settle down until he gets his ducks in a row.

3.He is committed to making it work

A guy who isn’t ready to commit is always looking for reasons to leave. A guy who wants to commit fights for it and looks for reasons to stay.

He wants it to work. It’s important to him, it matters, and he wants to see things through. When a guy isn’t ready to settle down, he has a take it or leave it attitude with his relationships. He doesn’t invest too much of himself. If things work out, great. If not, whatever, no big deal.

When a guy is in it, he is in it.

4.He really lets you in

He lets you see his true self,  the man beneath the mask. We all wear masks in the world. But that mask is rarely who we truly are, it’s how we want to be seen.

When a man is serious about you, he shows you hidden parts of himself, the sides he hides from everyone else, the sides that only a privileged few have access to. He can be real with you, no fronts, and no facade. He opens up to you, confides in you, and trusts you fully.

When a man does this, he’s investing in you and committing himself to you.

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